About kayna

Author, speaker, educator +
sex therapist

I didn’t plan to become a sex therapist — pain led me here.

I started as a pelvic pain patient, struggling with sex that hurt and the shame that came with it. Over time, I became a licensed marriage and family therapist, somatic practitioner, and sex therapist — blending science, trauma healing, and body-based practices in a way most professionals don’t.

I’ve spent nearly two decades guiding people out of shame and into power, helping them rewire not just their sex lives, but their entire sense of self. What I teach works — because I’ve lived it.

MY CORE BELIEF

When you heal your relationship with sex + pleasure, you unlock your power.

Sexual or intimate healing isn't just about sexual pleasure (though yes, that matters). It’s about learning how to trust your body, speak your truth, and create deeper, more meaningful relationships — with yourself and others. By embracing various forms of pleasure, you can achieve liberation.

My mission is to make that liberation as accessible as possible. I recognize the privileges I hold, and I’m committed to offering different ways for people to engage with this work. What lights me up most is creating transformative spaces where people walk away not just with answers, but with memories, insights, and a new sense of who they are.

This work changes lives. And I’m here for all of it — the messy, the tender, the breakthroughs, and the bold new beginnings.

FEATURED IN

Get to know me a little more with some random facts.

I have a beautifully neurodivergent brain and chronic pain that taught me how to advocate for myself and honor my body’s needs.

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I met my husband while on vacation in Barcelona — a serendipitous meeting straight out of a steamy romance novel.

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I’m just as happy barefoot in the dirt on a minimalist camping trip as I am wrapped in a fluffy robe at a 5-star resort. It’s all about pleasure and presence.

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My philosophy

Sexual healing is life healing. When we stop pretending our sexuality is separate from the rest of us, the real magic begins.

Choose your journey to pleasure + liberation

SPEAKING

From intimate workshops to keynote speaking — elevate your event’s conversation about sex, pleasure + power.

MORE ABOUT MY TOPICS

BOOK

Your personal guide to rewriting sexual narratives for a happier body + more liberating sex.

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WORK WITH ME

Up-level your transformation in + out of the bedroom with personalized intensives, retreats, or consulting.

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